Thursday, July 10, 2014

One Step Following the Other...


Where do you look when you walk? Do you look at the path ahead of you or down at the ground beneath your feet? What about left and right? Do you look around you as you walk, turning your head farther than is unconsciously comfortable to see the path beside you? Do you turn around and look behind you?

During Golden Week this year I went for a bike ride along a path that I have traveled frequently by car. As I rode, I noticed the depth of detail that was lost when traveling by car. My eyes took in sights that they had not before: small shops with different wares, interesting pathways that seemed to lead to nowhere, temples just beyond the foliage, workshops hidden behind a three foot path just off the road and more. My ears were amazed to hear the sounds of women and children laughing as I passed houses, train wheels clicking on the tracks as they whizzed by, crickets chirping in the fields, frogs croaking, and insects buzzing in the greenery. Even my nose played a part in my observations, reminding me as I passed fisherman bait stores, honeyed flowers and freshly fertilized fields alike that each place has a distinctive smell -all of which are experienced for only a fraction of a second as the car zooms by, and even then only if the window is down or the AC is on. My senses were in such a state of excited rapture that I was overwhelmed by it all and quite lost myself to the pleasure of simply experiencing my environment.

A shrine on the side of the road that I'd never seen before.

Where does this road go? What was the tattered flag indicating?

One of the views to the left.

Koinobori swimming in the breeze.

A metal workshop that was abandoned for the day. Guess who went exploring?

Crows feasting in a field of flowers.
Later that month I went for a hike behind a temple to a place I’ve affectionately dubbed, “Saiki’s Fushimi Inari” due to the winding staircase with tori gate arches leading all the way up the mountain. As I walked, I was again reminded of how much is missed when one travels too quickly or does not take note of their surroundings. Had I not walked all the way around the temple, I would never have noticed the tiny forgotten staircase with its deteriorating steps covered in fallen foliage and the tori gates which littered the path, standing high above it or fallen over from rot and lack of attention. Looking right and left I discovered all manner of interesting paths and sights, finding large abandoned tori gates which were once part of a different path, and discovering small shrines hidden beneath a blanket of leaves and fallen branches so that only a fraction of them peeked out from beneath their multicolored veil. On a whim, I turned around to look behind me. What a difference one’s perspective makes on how one views an area! Though I had walked up the trail, the path I looked back upon did not look the same from the top looking down. It was incredible to consider that simply by changing my perspective, my perception of the area had been enriched and made more complete. Not only did I know what the path I was on and ahead of me looked like, but I could also recognize where I had been.
The path ahead of me.

The path behind me.

The abandoned tori gates, rotting next to the path.
Walking is often when I realize most how little attention is paid to my surroundings. The process of a simple walk is an appropriate metaphor for how one lives and problem solves, I discovered. I am so often looking forward to where I want to be, or taking note of where I am stepping, that I rarely consider the surroundings behind and beside me. Opportunities can be missed in the blind pursuit of that which I think are wanted, and in focusing only upon the present. Improved understanding of situations, my life, thoughts and dreams can be had when time is taken to focus on the 360 degrees surrounding them. There is always more detail than we think.

If I think of problems as the point directly beneath my feet with the future ahead, the past behind, and different opportunities, options, and opinions to the right and left, problem solving becomes a lot easier to grasp. If I only look in one direction- ahead or down- I can lose focus on everything else around me. The solution might be available, but I don’t know that because it’s behind me or to the side. Taking a full observation of my surroundings might not be possible due to the continuously changing flow of time and events; however, getting a general sense is possible. Taking time to look around and gain a fuller picture of where you are, literally and figuratively, provides a fuller picture of your environment and situation than focusing upon one point provides

Now, granted there are situations where looking in only one direction might be what’s best. Sometimes looking backwards will hamper progress, or listening to the opinions on either side will cause confusion. There are times when it isn’t appropriate to get the full picture, or doing so is detrimental. I will not deny this. It’s not possible to consider your complete surroundings every moment that the sun shines; indeed, if you did so you would proceed at such a slow pace that you would scarcely move at all. Insofar as problems are concerned, perhaps asking for advice from friends and family is more helpful than looking backwards at one point, whereas at other times it’s more advantageous to look to yourself and shut out the other opinions to find your path. Each situation is unique, and should be approached as such.

If you’re like me, and it seems like you’re walking down the same path you’ve always been walking or you don’t know why you’re going the way you are, perhaps you should take a look around you. Doing so will not only give you a broader perspective of where you are and how you got there, but what your options are from there on out. Maybe you’ll find a path to your left, or a small shrine that you passed. Maybe you’ll look down and realize that you’re about to step onto a snail, or look up and realize there’s a beautiful spider web overhead. As I walk my head is constantly turning, my eyes are always searching, my ears are listening and my nose is open. I try to walk in a constant state of awareness and openness so as to get the most out of my experience. It’s a little more difficult to live like that, and I often find myself focusing too intensely on one direction, but it’s a good reminder to take a moment, breathe, look around and bask in the incredibleness of my circumstances.

This is how I try to walk through life. How about you? How do you walk through life?
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Monday, April 14, 2014

Blissful Bathing: Onsens


A note on onsens: I love them. No beating around the bush, no long explanation, no apologies. They are amazing, magical places full of heat and water. They are my go-to for good feels and deep relaxation. Feeling cold? Go to an onsen. Feeling hot? Go to an onsen. Feeling stressed? Go to an onsen. Feeling a little out of sorts? Go to an onsen. Having a great day and want to make it better? Go to an onsen!

Onsens are places where you can strip away the world with each article of your clothing; leaving both in the changing room as you enter emotionally and physically naked into the bathing area. In the steam filled room where you wash yourself before bathing, you can take your time to let your hair down and give yourself that nice long rub down which removes the last traces of the outside world`s presence on your mind and skin. After that, you`re ready to slowly submerge yourself in the beautifully hot water and let it seep into every layer of yourself, starting with your oh so tender skin. “Hot, hot, hot!” is what usually is playing through my mind as I enter, with each successive “hot!” getting higher pitched and louder in correlation to the lower I sink into the steaming bath. After you`ve adjusted to the temperature (or as much as is possible), all that`s left to do is lay there and really take in the massaging heat of the water and the contrasting cool steam that wafts above it, caressing your exposed skin in gentle waves. This, for me, is a little slice of heaven.

Onsens come in a multitude of different sizes and shapes. On the upper scale they are posh spas with a variety of choices for your bathing pleasure (want a massage, foot rub, facial?), and have extensive bathing facilities with areas to lay on hot rocks, mineral water baths, different temperature pools (lobster-hot to ice-cold and anywhere in between), a sauna, individual bathing pools for rent… you get my drift. Some have outdoor bathing pools where you can look at the beautiful landscape while bathing (which, I must say, is my favorite way to bathe). This is for the extreme pampering experience. On the opposite end are the onsens that are literally a room with a washing area and the one pool that everyone sits in.

See the stools and bathing area to the left? That's where you wash before and after entering the pool.

These are the more traditional, everyday ones. You can find these tiny little havens in the nooks and crannies of most large cities, with smaller cities having one or two. Though often unimpressive or unrecognizable from the outside, they are just as lovely to slip into at the end of the day as the large scale ones.

One important aspect of onsens is their social factor. Onsens are a great place for friends to hang out, talk and relax, or to meet new people. While you can absolutely go to an onsen alone and enjoy a soak without talking to anyone, as many do, I find it difficult as a foreigner to do so. Generally someone will try to talk to me, or at the very least I will get a lot of stares. A natural hazard of being someone who looks different in a largely homogeneous society, I`ve accepted this aspect of life. It’s interesting to talk to people, and naked conversation time is just as fun as dressed conversation time, just with less talk about accessories.

All of that being said, I do want to mention two special and interesting onsen experiences I have had. One was at an onsen in Usuki. A friend and I decided to pack up our things and head off to an onsen escape in Usuki, a town about forty minutes from Saiki by train. The onsen was a middle level onsen with an inside and an outside pool. Though it was winter, and rather cold outside, we decided to brave the outdoor pool. Normally this wouldn`t be a problem, but do consider this: it`s winter, therefore cold outside, and you have to walk to the pool which is a good 20-30 meters away while being absolutely nude and wet from washing. Bracing ourselves, we dashed from the door to the pool. There has never been as much relief as when we ducked into the hot pool, submerging ourselves up to our chins so as to erase the chill from our bones in the meltingly hot water. This outdoor pool was made of smooth rocks with rougher large ones surrounding it to give a rustic feel. Set in a garden with trees, shrubs and groundcover, it was made to provide privacy as well as the feel of being alone in nature. Due to the cold, the steam was rising off the water in soft swirls that cascaded over us in a refreshing mist. Surrounded by all the foliage, the night sky overhead, smooth rocks under my feet, hot water seeping into my soul and steam leaving gossamer kisses on my skin, I was completely enchanted. Out of all my onsen experiences, this was byfar my favorite.

While not the pool I went to, it shows what I mean by a view and nature being everywhere. Also, steam!


This resembles the pool I went to, though this one is smaller.

The other experience was less about the onsen and more about the people there. The same friend and I ducked into a small onsen (where it was just a single pool that everyone sits in together) in Beppu after a JET event. Seeing that it was a small pool which was already pretty full, I prepared myself for being stared at, or asked questions. Surprisingly, neither during my pre-washing, soaking or post-washing time did anyone approach me, nor did I notice anyone staring. Though that is a little unusual (usually I notice at least one person staring), I took it as a small blessing and enjoyed my undisturbed soak. As we were leaving, my friend pointed to a sign on the wall. In very polite Japanese, the sign explained that there may be foreigners coming to this onsen who would like to bathe, and asked people to be considerate to their privacy so that everyone can enjoy the onsen experience. This was the Japanese way of politely saying, “Please don`t stare at, question, or otherwise make the foreigners uncomfortable.” I have never seen such a sign before, but thought it was neat that the management had been considerate enough to make one (or had there been enough complaints that it become necessary?). Obviously it worked, since the women there paid me little heed! It was interesting to note that the sign was even necessary, though I well understood why it was.

On the topic of onsens, there is so much information about them that I won`t even try to cover it all. Can I wear a bathing suit? Which allow tattoos (see link below)? Which have salt water? Which are actual onsens and which are just hot water baths (onsens = natural hot springs)? What is proper onsen etiquette? Why do people wear towels and buckets on their heads?

Instead, I`ll just leave you with this beautiful image of an outside onsen with a mountain view. Ahhhhh….



Pssst! 
This link shows which onsens allow tattoos, though you can ask anywhere you go as well since this link isn`t absolutely inclusive. The webpage is in Japanese! http://tattoo-spot.jp/


Monday, February 24, 2014

"What did I just put in my mouth?": Highlights, Realizations and Funny Experiences

There have been a lot of events, realizations and thoughts that I have had since setting foot once again in Japan. Some are hilarious, while others made me take a step back and reassess the situation. Here is a random assortment of experiences, realizations, thoughts and funny events that have transpired since that fateful day. I`ve laughed, been lost in thought or shocked into silence, learned diplomacy, and been rewarded many times over for pushing beyond my comfort zone. Follow me on some of these adventures.


Why is the world breathing?? Japanese spirits explained!
              During my first month, I had one strong recurring thought: No wonder in Japanese mythology and Shintoism there are so many gods and spirits! How can you not believe that when everything around you lives and breathes? There are bugs, large and small, constantly underfoot, in the trees, and everywhere you look. You have to be careful when touching a railing outside because you might put your hand on a snail. There are crabs in the side streets, and geckos in the foliage. Ducks are in the river, there are tons of crows and falcons, fish are everywhere, cranes feed in the rice fields, and turtles in the canal duck their heads out of sight as you pass by. With such a constant array of life all around, I was in perpetual wonder at the fact that the air around me was literally breathing. That, and playing hopscotch on my way home so as not to step on cicadas or any other small creatures that might be there. How incredible to be surrounded by such life!

"What did I just put in my mouth?"
              That wonderful feeling of, "What did I just put in my mouth?" never goes away. It can only get dulled over time. That being said, there`s nothing quite like that bite of fish cake that has little bones in it, or the fermented bean dish that looks like slime (and smells wretched) to really make you wonder what you just ate. Whether you`re eating a strange white gelatinous goo from the convenience store, being gifted with food from a friend or colleague, having food put on your plate while at a party, or simply ordering random food from a restaurant, this thought will always be there. Especially if you honestly can`t tell what it is… Just open up and go for it! Watch out for unusual textures and tastes though, and always, always, keep a bottle of tea or a cup of tea handy.


Natto anyone?
Trash cans
              My search for trash cans continues! Anyone who lives in Japan knows this very well: locate the trash cans of any area you`re in immediately. They`re difficult (or nonexistent) and incredibly necessary unless you want a banana peel stuck in your purse (it didn`t happen, but almost!).


"It'll come back."
              "It'll come back." How many times have I heard this said since arriving in Saiki? It`s a saying that people who do something nice for me have said when I thank them. “Don`t worry; it`ll come back.” People understand that we all help each other, and that we are a community built upon one another. This saying expresses to me how interwoven this community is, and the compassionate nature of those who live in such a tight-knit area. People don`t do something nice for you because they`re only thinking about what they`ll get out of it. Instead, it`s more altruistic in that the saying is used to remind others that the help they are receiving is a gift that they should continue sharing. I suppose this is my area`s way of paying it forward.

5 o`clock BLARING MUSIC- otherwise known as the Saiki song
              One of the greatest parts of living in Saiki is the Saiki song at 5 pm. Every day without fail, the theme song of Saiki city plays loudly on speakers throughout the whole city. It`s like a giant notification to everyone that the standard work hours are done for the day: “You`re done! Good job! Now, GO HOME!” 
The first time I heard it was my second day in Saiki. Alone in my apartment and lost in concentration as I sorted through the items left by my predecessors, I jumped out of my skin at the booming music that seemed to come out of nowhere. Later I found out that there was a speaker right next to my building, but at the time I thought I`d lost my mind. Since then, I`ve come to welcome and appreciate the sweet notice of the end of the work day.

Four great lessons from school (though there are many)
1)  Being silent and staring works sometimes for quieting down unruly students. Ever realize how awkward it is for the whole class to become quiet and realize you`re the only one talking, while the teacher is staring at you and smiling? Thank you previous teachers for this lesson.

2)  If the student starts singing, sing with them! During one introduction class a student asked me what music I like. I listed off a few genres, but almost instantly after he heard, “musicals” he started singing loudly. Though taken aback for a moment, I quickly realized that he was singing the Japanese version of "Do you hear the people sing" from Les Miserables. Joining in with the English version, we sang together to the applause of the entire class. Scoring points with the students and nailing my first impression on that class for the win!

3)  Hard to eat or open food is a fun way to get people to talk to you. I passed out honey sticks to my fellow teachers when I first arrived, and was able to start conversations with a lot of them about the flavors, and how to open/eat it. It`s a great ice-breaker for shy teachers, and to do a self-introduction.

4) When a bunch of students approach you and ask you to do something with them, if you have the time and the ability, do it. Not only is it a great way to get to know your students, but how often do you have the chance to goof off with them? Enjoy it!
              Now I say this, but how I was learned this lesson was an experience in and of itself. Each year every school has a two day long Culture Festival. The whole school prepares for this for a couple months, with each class working really hard to make a special project or presentation to show the rest of the school. Outside of the projects, there are also student bands that play for a makeshift dance party, taiko drumming by the students, a calligraphy performance, games and various other forms of entertainment.
              Blissfully unaware of how the Culture Festival would go at one of my schools, I was sitting in the audience and watching the performances when the students who were going to play taiko approached me. “Let`s play today!” They said. “Okay!” I responded, smiling and giving them a double thumbs up. Jumping up and down excitedly, they said while beaming, “Yay! Let`s play together!” A little confused, I asked what they meant. One of my fellow English teachers overheard, and started talking with the students. Turning to me, she explained, “They say you`re going to play with them on the stage.” Eyes wide with shock, I quickly started saying, “What? No, no, no, no no…” Their excitement changed immediately to disappointment. “No??” They practically cried. After some quick translation on the part of my colleague, we found out that another teacher had heard that I was interested in taiko and arranged for me to play with them. Their faces were so hopeful that I swallowed my embarrassment and stage fright and told them I would play with them. Instantly excited again, they bounced away to prepare.
              There`s nothing quite like trying out an instrument that you`ve never touched before in front of hundreds of your students and colleagues. In the end, it was a lot of fun, we all laughed a lot, and the students in the group became a lot friendlier towards me afterwards. An additional lesson is that shame, embarrassment and self-doubt too often get in the way of great experiences. It`s not easy, but swallow them and do it anyway.

Oh Engrish…
              Sometimes Engrish (or misunderstood English) is shocking. My most recent encounter with this happened while I was in a shop with unusual household items, cookware and trinkets. As I was walking around I kept on hearing a mechanical voice shouting English cuss words in a shrill voice. Confused, I finally saw a small child, perhaps four years old, walking around with a toy in his hand. The toy was a hand that was flipping the bird. The child was pressing the button that was emitting the sound over and over again, so that it kept cussing loudly. I was so shocked that I stopped dead in my tracks and just gaped at the scene.
              Though I`m sure many people don`t understand the words, and perhaps not the significance of flipping the bird in many English speaking countries, it still took me by surprise. Sometimes what you find offensive isn`t at all in another culture, and vice versa. You`ve just got to keep that in mind…

“What did I just put in my mouth?” Continued with diplomatic lessons attached
         When offered food you don't like or that turns out to not be to your liking, and it would be impolite to refuse, you gain diplomacy points for being able to eat it without gagging. Extra points are achieved if you can do so while keeping a pleasant or neutral countenance on your face, and are able to respond favorably when asked how it was. "It was interesting. Thank you."
        Only after they have left should you proceed to inconspicuously eat or drink something strongly flavored to wash away the taste.


Spectacular Highlights from the Classroom
(Moments where I burst out laughing, was shocked, or did a mental facepalm)
1)   For one class of 1st years, we did an exercise after they read a short article about “kawaii culture” where they had to make two sentences about kawaii culture. The sentence structure was “ I think ~~~~ is kawaii culture because ~~~~~” with the example being, “I think Kitty-chan (Hello Kitty) is kawaii culture because she has a cute bow.” I walked around the room and had each group read their example to the class. Many of them talked about Kitty-chan, Rilakkuma or various other figures. One group of boys came up with this sentence: “I think Hannah is kawaii because she is a beautiful woman.” Talk about shock! After laughing a little, I thanked them and continued with class; however, I`m sure I was a few shades redder.

2)   Another class of 1st years were putting together two halves of a sentence. I had cut up the sentences and given them both the beginning and ending pieces to help them learn a grammar point. One group made such ridiculous sentences that I couldn`t help but snort with suppressed laughter. "Which is the chicken/wearing glasses?" and "Who is the girl/cooked in the oven?" were two of the gems. Their faces when I explained the sentences' meaning? Priceless.

3)   For three different classes of 3rd years, I did a project where I gave them a strange Japanese invention (such as a fan attached to chopsticks or butter in a glue stick form) without explanation. Their job was to explain how the product worked, what it did, give it a name, and make an advertisement for it that they would present to the class. The results were creative, inventive, and hilarious. I`ll admit that there was one group which marketed flavored butter sticks that I thought might actually sell.
           By far the best and most shocking/facepalm ads were the body pillow ads. The product is a pillow shaped like a torso with an arm, so that you can sleep while cuddling it.




Mind you, I had three different classes with one group per class who chose this product! They somehow all came up with the same idea: This pillow is created to keep you from being lonely or sad. You can “remember your ex-boyfriend” with it. “Don`t be lonely.” One group even went so far as to say that there were “male pheromones” injected into the pillow so as to make the experience more realistic. All said that it smelled like a boy, and that lonely girls everywhere should buy one. So ladies, don`t be lonely. Get this pillow right away!


Thursday, January 23, 2014

Wintering in the Tropics: A reflection on my trip to Taiwan

In December, I packed up my hiking backpack and set off for a week of traveling around Taiwan with a friend who was studying there. We went from the north of Taiwan to the south, stopping in Jinshan, Dharma Drum, Taipei and Kaosiung. Besides some of the more traditional tourist locations such as museums and temples, we also made a point to do a lot of hiking and simply go wherever looked interesting. In this manner we were able to travel relatively stress-free, and have an enjoyable time traveling around the country. A good chunk of my stories and interesting sights are told through my pictures on facebook, so I will only detail a few here as well as the experience that left the largest impression upon me.

Firstly, let me just say that in Taiwan there was an abundance of friendly and hospitable people. Everywhere we went this was the case: even when I spoke a few words in (poorly accented) Chinese, they always responded positively. I have never met so many people who were all so agreeable and good natured as those that I met on this trip. My Japanese coworkers insisted that the Taiwanese are very nice and friendly people, which I happily found verified throughout the duration of my trip.

The first big shock upon arriving was how colorful Taiwan is! It seems that everywhere we went there was a plethora of bright reds, oranges, blues, greens, and gold. The traditional local religious shrines (the equivalent of Japanese Shintoism) were by far some of the most brilliantly decorated and colored monuments that I have seen in my life. It was refreshing to see so much color everywhere, yet I found it so striking that I couldn`t stop gaping at the sheer intensity of it

Another shock was the number of scooters. If scooters were cats, there would be an almost 1:2 ratio of cats to people. Scooters zoomed haphazardly around each other in the streets, alleys, and back roads. They lined the pavement in makeshift parking spots, and were the major form of road-blocks. Rush hour was the time when scooters would dwarf cars by sheer numbers. Even coming from Japan where scooters and bicycles are frequently used, it was still a new sight to see these hordes of scooters at every turn.

One curiosity that I encountered everywhere we traveled was the size and magnitude of funeral mausoleums. It seemed that the mountainsides were filled with these mausoleums that were the size of a small or medium shed. In Japan they have funeral altars, but they are very different from these. Whereas in Japan the altars tend to be simple, and made of polished stone all of the same grey color, these mausoleums were large, brightly colored and ornately decorated. For me it seemed lavish and extravagant, but that is the way of these mausoleums. Each culture respects their dead in their own special way; it was very interesting to note the way in which Taiwan marks their dead, and pays tribute to them.

As for Taiwanese food- Incredible! I feel like there was so much more variety than available in Japanese cuisine, and was happy to eat anything and everything put in front of me. This resulted in me eating various forms of blood (blood cake and blood jelly), tendons, chicken feet, stinky tofu, thousand year egg, and dragon fruit (which is deep purple in color and unexplainably delicious) amongst others. Food is one the best parts of travel and living in my opinion. Cultures and individuals have unique ways of preparing food, making each bite is a new experience. If it looks good (or sometimes even if it doesn`t), I say go for it! Life`s too short in my eyes to be squeamish. And who knows? You may just enjoy it, like I did!

This is the end of the sampling of my reflections on the trip. I will leave this recollection of Taiwan with a tale about the place and experiences that touched me the deepest.


Early on in our trip we dedicated a day to visiting the Buddhist monastery/college that my friend attended on Dharma Drum Mountain, north Taiwan. Dharma Drum is a mountain full of lush forests and babbling brooks, tiny back roads and gorgeous hiking trails. The monastery and college are one and the same, with the students being composed of monks, nuns and regular students. The grounds are designed in Buddhist tradition, meaning that everything, while large and impressive, was built using simple designs, leaving plenty of spaces for large or small meditation halls, prayer halls where you could pray to a Buddha or Buddhisatva, and many smaller sitting areas. The monastery and its surrounding expansive grounds are specifically designed to have many paths for walking/meditating, which I took great pleasure in walking through at a leisurely pace.

Master Sheng Yen, the creator of Dharma Drum, intentionally designed the grounds and monastery so that the sound of running water is heard at all times. Here you would see a brook, another time a small fountain, over there a large rain wall, and even when you weren`t in sight of the source, various sounds of running and dripping water could be heard in the background. I found the beauty of it all absolutely awe-inspiring. The gentle silence and communication through smiles and hand signals that I used with the monks and nuns since we did not share a common language was spell-binding when mixed with the gorgeous and serene atmosphere. I was so touched by the gentle kindness of it all that words escaped me, and for most of the day I walked in a reverie.

  One of my favorite memories of the whole day, perhaps the whole trip, was the lunch we ate at the monastery. Meals are provided daily to anyone who is there. This includes visitors and students alike. Everyone eats a communal meal that is prepared by the monks and nuns, and sit together in the eating hall that is separated by sex. Before the meal, I had asked and received confirmation that meals were held in silence. I entered the hall, waited in line, served myself some food, and (as I looked confusedly around) was noticed by a lady who directed me to where the women were sitting. All that could be heard was the clanking, sometimes scraping, of our metal silverware and chopsticks against our metal bowls, the sounds of chewing and swallowing, scraping chairs as people stood or sat, and the muted footsteps made by people getting food or nuns carrying/adding trays.

I ate in silence; then, finding that taking seconds was a common practice for all, I did so. I had seen people eating a deep purple food, and was curious to find out what it was and try it. Having succeeded in finding it, I sat down again with my bowl of sliced purple… something. Bringing it to my lips, I was delighted to find out that it was a soft, fleshy fruit with small, strawberry like seeds. Later, I was to find out that this delicious fruit that I had a second bowl of is called dragon fruit. I continued eating in silence, relishing the simplicity and deliciousness of the meal.

After finishing, I arose and walked over to put my chopsticks and bowl away, only to discover that I had not the foggiest idea where to put them! Silently, I approached a nun who, upon seeing my questioning eyes and dirty empty bowl, broke into a huge, cherubim smile and showed me through a gentle sweep of her arm where to take it. Thanking her with a returned smile, I put my bowl and chopsticks away and left the hall to find my friend. This meal sticks in my mind and impressed upon me so deeply because of the simplicity of it all, the kindness and generosity in which it was prepared, and the sweet, innocent open smiles in the eyes and faces of all whom I approached. There is something so magical and powerful about silent communication and it's ability to bring people together across all types of barriers. This is but one of my experiences in Taiwan- yet, I think it was one of the most special for me.

There was much about Taiwan that I found interesting and wonderful. The night markets, hikes, and people were wonderful to see and meet. I met amazing people along the way through couch surfing, and was able to enjoy the simple pleasures of traveling with nothing but a backpack, a friend, open minds and open plans. Though this was my first time to Taiwan, I hope it will not be my last. Looking out the window of the plane, I said a fond “see you later” to my friend and Taiwan.

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

New Ways to Start a New Year


        I often find myself amazed at the way time moves. It’s been five months since I arrived in Japan, yet it feels simultaneously shorter and longer since I left America. Everything since July has been a whirlwind of events. Between finding an apartment, figuring out my work schedule, learning how to do my job, exploring my area, getting more familiar with how to do daily activities, learning and navigating around the language, going to festivals and social events, meeting new people, and simply trying to figure out how to set up my entire life here, it has been a crazy couple of months. Every day has been full of learning experiences, which have helped me to grow and better understand the area I live in. That being said, I’m glad the whirlwind is slowing down!
       In light of the timing of this update, I thought that I would talk about the New Year. This holiday week was spent in a way I’ve never spent it before. For once, New Years took precedence over Christmas, and I spent the time leading up to the new year, and the day of, celebrating in new and interesting ways. This is an account of the day before New Years Eve, New Years Eve, and New Years day.

       My first step towards celebrating the new year was by going with a friend and their family to make mochi (お持ち付け) two days before. Mochi is the product of pounded rice. To make mochi you use special rice that is high in gluten, which makes it easier shape into a sticky, taffy-like substance. The night before you make mochi, you need soak the rice in water. The next day, you steam it. After that, you take the steaming hot mass of heavy white rice and put it into a large mortar. Using what look like giant wooden pegs with long handles (which I will call “hammers”), you then push the rice until it starts to stick together. All the while, someone adds water (a little at a time) to the mixture to help it stick together, and not stick to the mortar or the wooden pegs. Once the rice has started to stick together, the fun really begins. Someone takes one of the huge wooden hammers and starts to pound the mochi in large, strong blows. In between the blows, someone else moves the mochi batter around, splashes water on it, pulls and tugs at it, and tries to keep it from sticking to the mortar. Mind you, this batter is piping hot, so they have to work quickly. The process of pounding and moving the batter soon becomes a steady rhythm, with each person giving a grunt as they finish to signal the other to go.
       People will take turns in each station, and little kids in particular have fun pounding the mochi; though, it should be mentioned, they are given significantly smaller hammers and only hit a few times as opposed to the large number of repetitions the adults do. Pounding mochi is hard work: between the hammering and moving around the extremely hot batter, it can be quite exhausting. After the mochi batter has been pounded to the right consistency of dough, it is moved out of the mortar and into a wooden tray that has been pre-floured with mochi flour. People gather around then to help tear off chunks of the dough and shape it into mochi balls of various sizes. There is the general size of mochi, which is about the size of one’s palm, and then there is the mochi used for the family altar. It is traditional to put stacks of three mochi (a small, medium and large mochi) in front of the ancestor’s altar in the home during New Years. While making mochi you can add a variety of ingredients. We chose to make some with red bean paste in the middle, and roll others in roasted soybean powder. The most commonly made mochi were simply plain mochi. We even made a batch of brown rice mochi! This is not entirely common to make, partially because it takes about twice as long to pound the brown rice due to how hard it is. The flavor is very different from regular white rice mochi. Since you can’t pound all the grains into a flat mixture, it’s a lot lumpier, and has a meatier taste to it- kind of like brown rice!
       One of the best parts of making mochi from scratch is eating the hot, fresh mochi right away. Even better than that is if someone brings a daikon (white radish) and soy sauce. You grate the daikon into a bowl, add the soy sauce, dip the hot mochi in it and mwah- heaven. It’s spicy, salty, and just a little sweet. I think I ate my weight in daikon-dipped mochi.
       By the end of the morning I was covered in mochi flour, and had sticky mochi all over my hands. There were about five families there with their kids running around, and throughout the morning I was constantly being pulled by them to go and play. At one point one of the boys brought a long string of mochi up to me and, thrusting it in my face, yelled, “蛇!(Snake!)” I gasped in mock surprise, then pulled out my necklace (which has a snake on it), and showed him my snake. Poor thing! I think I ruined his fun because he looked so disappointed that I wasn’t scared… I made it up by acting alarmed when he said it had bit him. All was well after that, and the shenanigans continued.
       After we finished, we had a lovely meal with our hosts filled with curry, fried chicken, rice and different salads. All of the families sat down to eat and talk while the kids ran around, jumping in and out of people’s laps, laughing and munching on pieces of chicken and mochi. It was a really wonderful, warm way to end a day of working together: a shared meal where we all relaxed, talked, laughed and ate. The feeling of the atmosphere was very casual, and familial. It was a wonderful way to end our time of mochi making together. We all parted ways after the meal with our huge bags of mochi, expressing our thanks and bowing repeatedly while promising to see each other next year.

       When I am in America, I usually spent New Years Eve playing games with friends and family, cooking, watching movies and hanging out. My New Years Eve in Japan this year was very different. My friend Yellie and I set up a nabe pot (a heated pot) on her kotatsu (a heated table) in front of the TV, and sat for a few hours making nabe and watching kohaku. Kohaku is basically the Japanese equivalent of the Times Square New Years Eve special. It is a four-hour review of popular music and musicians in Japan over the past year.  Old classic songs in the style of “enka” are also sung intermittently throughout the program. Watching kohaku is one of the most popular ways to spend New Years Eve in my area. So in this spirit, Yellie and I sat at the heated table for a couple hours and watched musical performances while boiling vegetables and meat in the nabe pot, eating them and drinking tea.
       Thirty minutes before midnight we ended our nabe and music party to participate in another Japanese tradition: going to Buddhist temples and Shinto shrines at midnight. People go to the shrines to ring in the new year, ring the bells, drink hot amezake (thin rice porridge) and zenzai (red bean soup), and pray for a blessed new year. The Buddhist temples ring the bells a hundred and eight times, I believe, one for each of the sins in Buddhism, so as to dispel them.  It is believed that ringing the bells will cleanse them of their sins during the previous year. This time of year is also the only time that some of the Buddhist temples that are not generally open to the public open their doors to everyone. Not wanting to miss out on this opportunity to see these temples and experience, Yellie and I bundled up and set off into the cold night air.
       Walking about the mostly deserted streets of my town, hearing the gong of the bells resonating through the still brisk air, with the light from the lamps casting a surreal haze upon the darkness, was a spectacular feeling. The night air chilled my cheeks and ears, but I barely noticed. As we walked past open temple and shrine doors, we could see the figures of monks in the doorways and enclosures- shadowed and partially illuminated by the orange hue of the fires they were burning. There is something so bewitching about walking through the roads lined with traditional Japanese houses, catching glimpses behind the typically closed temple doors, and hearing the ringing of the bells in the stillness of the night. I walked in a daze of quiet awe and enchantment.
       As we got closer to the temple we were headed to, more people started showing up on the roads. Once at the temple, Yellie and I walked around, drank some amezake, watched people ring the bell and talked with some of the monks and our students. Since we live in such a small town, we saw a good number of our students, and surprised them with some impromptu “English time.” From there we went to a shrine, walked around there a little bit, then headed home to grab a few hours of sleep before…

       New Years Day! What do the Japanese do on the first day of the New Year? Sleep? No! They go and watch the first sunrise of the New Year and make a wish. People go to a variety of famous and favorite places to watch the first sunrise. This year I was invited to join the third year students and teachers at one of my high schools in watching the first sunrise together from the roof of our school. This meant that at six o’clock, five hours after going to sleep, I rolled out of bed, into warm clothes, and headed to school: fully prepared to freeze in solidarity with my students and coworkers as we waited for the sun to come up. And so we did! All of us were huddled on the roof: my students in their school uniforms freezing, the teachers in their coats freezing, and all of us waiting for the sun to appear over the mountain.
       Finally, after what seemed like an eternity of time spent teasing each other, talking, joking and shivering, the sun rose up over the mountain- and behind a cloud. “Does that count?” I asked in a mixture of confusion and hope. Seeing that no one was moving, I assumed it didn’t. With baited breath, and many jokes with the students about moving the clouds, we waited until the sun finally peaked out from behind the cloud. Huzzah! Everyone pressed their hands together in prayer, asking for blessings for the new year (my students specifically asking to pass the college entrance exams). Then in a flash, we all hurried inside, down the stairs and out to another shrine where all the students waited in line to ring the bell and repeat their prayers. Finally they finished praying, and we all returned to school where we prepared lunch together. Sleepy and cold but excited, the teachers and students cooked huge batches of soup, zenzai, sushi, and rice balls together for a few hours in a fun bonding and sharing time. I was happy to cook with my students and coworkers, as well as meet some of their parents. In my group we even played a game where the students taught me Japanese words and I taught them the English ones; the mothers got so excited, they started practicing as well! In the end, I think the mothers were having so much fun they ended up practicing more English than my students. After eating together, the third years who had not passed their college exams yet went to study, and I went home to sleep.
       Taking into account all the events of the past few days, I have had an amazing and memorable first new year in Japan. The experiences were incredible, but they would be nothing without the warmth and friendliness of the people around me. It was a new years of new experiences, enka music, surreal sights, meeting new people and bonding with my community.
       This is the start of my 2014 year in Japan: may the light of this first sunrise shine upon a year full of new experiences, lessons, and growth for us all.